Hi all.... MANY thanks for all the thoughts and prayers HS kept me updated.

It's been a week ago today (Friday) that Dad left this painful world for a wonderful place and spend eternity with my Mom. I came home this AM for a parish council meeting and appt with my psych this afternoon. Just enough to start living again. Plus it will give my stepmom a few days to adjust (she is surrounded by her BIL and her 2 children, time for them to step up and be there for her) I will be home until Sunday or Monday??????

I will post more later....
Red, I may take you up on the bach tape... I had a good and much needed laugh when I read your offer!!!!!

THANKS AGAIN one and all.... I felt embraced by your support especially when I did the eulogy, with no tears until I sat down!!!! (which included the Poem HS called to me, I had mentioned prior I may want to use it. She called just as I was finallizing the eulogy.... God does work in mysterious ways!!

Lil I appreciated your offer but weather wise we couldn't get family to airports!!!! I will call you soon

Hugs to all !!!!